“The book Ready or Not…They’re Gay is like a PFLAG storytelling session. Narrated in the simplest of prose, this personal testimony of a Wisconsin couple tells how they react to first one and then the second of their sons telling them he is gay. The book is Quaker simple. There is little or no attempt to embellish. Paul and Hjordy Wagner, both retired public school teachers, move slowly from naiveté to anguish, insight, acceptance and, finally, celebration. This is a personal story, not a psychological treatise or political manifesto……. Thank you, Hjordy and Paul, for this moving, direct book based on your personal experiences”